When planning a wedding, choosing who to invite can be a lengthy process. Brides-to-be have to consider the total number of guests they desire, complicated family relationships, and evaluate the strength of old friendships. Here are some guidelines to keep in mind for unique situations:
The Ex
Should a bride invite an ex-boyfriend to their wedding? It all depends on how good of friends they are, and if their future spouse is friendly, too. And if you still refer to him as “my ex-boyfriend Brad” rather than “my friend Brad”, that’s a clear sign to reconsider!
The Really Old Friend
It’s tempting to want your childhood best friend, the one you played dress-up with and made a veil out of an old bath towel, at your wedding. But consider whether or not you are still actually friends, or if you’re just feeling nostalgic.
Mom’s New Boyfriend
Having divorced parents makes wedding planning difficult, and you might feel strange about having your dad see your mom with her new boyfriend. But it will be hurtful to Mom if you tell her not to bring him. The best bet is to invite the boyfriend and let your dad know ahead of time that he will be there.